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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]DH and I fight way too much.  We aren’t going to make it and we both know it so all compromise and cooperation has gone out the window.  I know our fighting is hurting my kids, especially my 8 yr old son but I just can’t seem to just stop arguing or getting angry with DH in front of the kids.

I’m feeling enormous shame just writing this.  [/quote]

Stop this. Figure out a way. Even if that way is divorce. As the child of two parents who hate each other, I carry anxiety about them being around each other today, as a 36 year old. They are long since divorced. Love your children more than you hate him. Leave, end the relationship now, find a way to stop. And when you do eventually split, don't make your kids choose, in any way, who to be loyal to.

I know you feel bad, I don't want to add to that, but this is one of the things on here that will really screw a kid up long term. [/quote]

Yes let's make her feel more shame while we are at it. 😣

I also resonate with the pps who mentioned rage, phones and lots of fighting with DH (we probably also will not make it (but that is more to do with the fact that he didn't work or even attempt to find a job all year while I worked 45hours a week,. Childcared and managed the household).[/quote]

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