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[quote=Anonymous]I clicked on this because I used to feel this as well with my DH. Not on basic hygiene but on other controlling aspect he displayed. He is a borderline hoarder and would freak out when I decluttered -- and I am talking about things like broken toys. He also did the light thing which drove me nuts; I felt like I was being followed.

I told him exactly what OP's DH said. I also took it a step further and said that if this does not get fixed, we will not live together in a few years. I have no wish to be divorced, but I will not be a stranger in my own home, and the feeling of not having a home is incredibly draining. In other words, DH was headed down a road where the marriage was worth less to me than the feeling of not having a home. To my DHs credit, he took that seriously (he knows I do not exaggerate things like this). The situation is much better now. Not perfect, but I am no longer dreaming about my own living space.

Listen to your DH. He's telling you something serious here. [/quote]

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