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[quote=Anonymous]Also, other posters are right. Secrets are the fuel and fire of addictions. Addictions love them and harbor them to sustain themselves. It doesn’t matter if it is the addicts secrets they hold themselves - how they use, when they use, where they use, where they really were, what they stole etc... or the unspoken secrets of their family - their parents unhappiness, own unworked through shame, the infidelity of a parent everyone just ignores etc... all the buried secrets come out to burn in the form of addiction. When I was swamping my way through recovery and felt like I was drowning, one of the rules i used to, and still, give myself, was no f*ckg secrets! Go to a meeting and share your story. Believe in the transformative power of being honest, open and free.[/quote]
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