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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]There can't really be an equivalent.  Girls don't really grow up thinking that men are supposed to submit to them in some way.  You might see a woman say that she is upset that she can't find a good man who is interested in her, or you might see a woman have a crush on a man that she knows doesn't like her back, but it's pretty rare to see a woman angry or surprised that a particular man isn't interested in her.   Blame the patriarchy.  [/quote]
I think there can be, just not as common. 
[b]The girl that is at the beck and call of her male friends (watching their dogs while they vacation with hotties) and resents they aren’t the girlfriend. [/b]They “get even” by meddling in relationships, spreading rumors, etc.[/quote]

This.  To some extent the default setting is supposed to be “nice” for girls and there isn’t a societal benefit of being labeled “the bad girl”.  So the closest equivalent is the “I’m just one of the guys, I’m not like the other girls”. They may have even hooked up with the guy friend they have a crush one tequila fueled night. They play the it’s all cool while he dates the hottie and laments/resents feeling like they are always the bridesmaid and never the bride.[/quote]

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