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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]for my DW to wear lingerie more than 1x per year, and leave the lights on so I can actually enjoy the visual of her how unbelievably hot and sexy she looks (and is).  and yes, I've told her this (the compliment) repeatedly over the years and after 3 kids.[/quote]

Lingerie feels so silly. Does your wife even feel sexy in it?  It’s not going to have the effect that you’d like. I imagine you’d like her to wear it and feel good in it. If she doesn’t like it and doesn’t think she looks good in it (lights off), even if she puts it on isn’t not like she will strut around the room in it.  My DH asks for this sometimes too - but with more of a dance/-act with it. I don’t do it, because I feel ridiculous. I’m not a stripper for a reason. It feels so humiliating to me. [/quote]

she has 2 drawers full of different lingerie that mostly she has bought herself over 23+ years together.  she packs it when we go on vacation too.[/quote]

If she has it in the drawers, but isn’t wearing it, then she doesn’t like wearing it any more. Women’s bodies change after childbirth. It can be hard to feel confident. If she wears it, but not for you, then she doesn’t want to have sex with you when she’s wearing it. Wearing sexy under clothes and intentionally undressing in another room is her trying to hide so you don’t initiate and paw at her. [/quote]

nope.  we shower together, are regularly in the hot tub naked together.  neither of us cover up in front of each of other while dressing, etc.  again, 23+ years together, raised 3 kids, still have a great sex life.

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That’s really great. Does she still have a good body? Does she have flaws like sagging boobs or belly and do you still
find her sexy anyways? [/quote]

I tell her regularly how sexy she is to me, and I literally still can't keep my hands off of her.  Don't get me wrong, our sex life is really good and she still does things to keep me attracted to her, as I do the same.  No, our bodies aren't as taut as they were when we were in our 20s. Her 34d boobs are still amazing (she had them done after our 3rd kid), and she maintains her weight and her looks, skin, hair, etc..  I work out regularly (running, elliptical, free weights) and am certainly not carrying around a dad bod (even though I'm 51 years old) and I'm just about the same weight as I was when I graduated college nearly 30 years ago.

She is an amazing woman, mom and wife all wrapped up in one being and I wouldn't want her to change any part of herself, not even for a moment.  The question was a simple one though- what would I like my partner to do - and I'd just like her to dress up b/c she drives me absolutely insane in some of her lingerie (and she knows it).[/quote]

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