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Be frank with them.  I say this as a mother of 3 young kids who is hosting Thanksgiving again b/c it truly is easier to have it at my house than at my in-laws.  I really do have some sympathy for you, I really do.  I pretty much have never visited my sister in NYC (at her place) with my kids b/c it is SOOOO much easier for her and her husband to come down here (other immediate family lives here too).  And her tiny little apartment just wouldn't house us all so we'd have to get a hotel room (2 actually) and so on.

[b]This really isn't fair to her.  But I truly don't think she is bothered by it.  She understands.[/b]  She has spent enough time with my kids to appreciate that they would last about 10 minutes in her apartment.  And she is okay with it.  But if she did have a problem, I'd want to know.  I'd want her to be straight up and I'd really try to respect that and make more effort.

HTH.[/quote]

No. She is bothered by it.  She just won't tell you because you wouldn't come anyway.  [/quote]

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