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[quote=Anonymous]I believe that mental breakdowns happen and that sometimes individuals change out of the blue. That said, it is rare. The fact that physical abuse may not start until well into a relationship does not mean that she could not have known or it was not predictable. Otherwise, why do some women keep picking abusive men? Why do children from abusive families so often find themselves in abusive relationships? It is because the relationship dynamic, which is completely dysfunctional, feels normal to them because that is what they know and they do not know how to behave in a different kind of relationship. I also believe it is not rare for partners to not know their spouses are cheating because people just cannot compartmentalize that well. There are signs. The person being abused or cheated on is choosing to ignore the signs or tht is how relationships feel, but they are there. It is very sad.[/quote]
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