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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Is she overweight, or still in the healthy range? I am five eight. I used to weigh 125. I gained thirty pounds and now weigh 155. Would I like to lose? Sure, but I am not overweight and don’t need to lose weight.

If she is still in the healthy range, say nothing.

If she is just over the healthy range, say nothing.

I would only consider saying something if there is a true danger to her health.

Women in our society are aware when they are overweight. Most want to lose. They don’t need their husbands fat shaming them. Especially now, in the middle of a pandemic. I would imagine she is probably dealing with all sorts of stresses especially if you have kids or elderly parents to care for.[/quote]
I’m sorry, what? I’m 5’7” and weigh 125 and if I gained 30lbs I would of course be fat. Just because it’s in the “range” of some medics chart as normal doesn’t mean you aren’t carrying around too much fat. If you were healthy 30lbs lighter then you are not healthy now unless you have gained 20lbs of muscle.

OP could make healthier grocery shopping. Take over a few dinner and make low cal stuff. Fix his wife lunches that are healthy and generally show he is into improving their lives. Is his DH likes to exercise the he should get her whatever gear she would use and ensure she has an hour per day to herself. [/quote]

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