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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think everyone assumed that it was Marilyln Manson considering she was with him when she was very young (and was probably abused by men before him). I cannot believe the victim blaming on this thread. You lot are disgusting.[/quote] IT’S NOT VICTIM BLAMING!!!!! I have enormous sympathy for her. But DAMN, let’s use good judgment and instincts ladies! [/quote] That is what other posters are trying to say when they refer to the cycle of abuse. When you've been abused/groomed throughout childhood, you're not able to reconize what are seemingly obvious red flags bc abusive behaviors have been normalized. In fact, abusers might feel familiar and therefore safe to you bc it's what you are used to. It often takes years of experience and therapy to unpack why we do what we do and to recognize our own patterns. As someone who had an emotionally abusive/dysfunctional childhood, I can absolutely see the way those experiences impacted my choices. I too chose older men who I can now see were predators. I didn't have the tools to realize this at the time. [/quote]
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