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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If husbands having affairs are so extremely common, and yet the severity of the consequences to the wife are so equally extreme, are marital relationships set up for the perception of failure by applying "rules" that statistically dictate a high rate of failure, and the resulting gnashing of teeth and existential relationship decision-making by the cheated on wife? What if the expectation was that he is going to at some point satiate his natural urges, and not because he hates his wife, but because it's what males do. [/quote] I think a lot of people acknowledge that if over 20 or 30 plus years, the husband or wife has an affair, this is still overall a person who is good at monogamy. Versus a serial cheater who is not or does not want to be and has multiple deceptions. [/quote]
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