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[quote=Anonymous]I think my biggest concern is that you are very mindful of equity and partnership in your relationship and valuing that as how you want it to be and that's fine. But for some professions like medicine, there is no true equal negotiation like the pp said. His work and patients will need to come first as a given. The couple, until he can better choose, works around the work, not the other way around. Sure, you can add help to modify the inequity and maybe he will get more flexibility. But i think on some level you sense you and your potential children will not typically come first. Patients and the work will basically be "the other woman" sometimes. You have to decide if you can do a reframe and accept the nature of his work. No one can know this but you. [/quote]
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