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[quote=Anonymous]In this day and age, there is much more access to images/info on sex and people to have it with. So it's a sign of the times that people don't wait.

Having said that- nothing wrong with waiting, but I do believe you are very lucky that you are compatible/into the same things/exploring the same things in the same ways at the same level and remain interested in each other. Simple physical things like how people smell, taste, look, sound and move during sex can be a make-or-break. And the more 'brain related' aspects of sex are even more diverse in terms of what can go right/wrong.

The religious girls I knew who were 'saving it' seemed to have a limited understanding of sex/personalities so they used to make comments about genitals-only like *wink 'we have the right equipment, it will be fine'. It is about so much more than that, at the same time as they accused others of 'making it all about that'.

Having said that, being with others before doesn't mean things won't change either, just that you won't wonder in the same way 'what is out there' as you've seen a bit of it and made the decision that you'd found the 'one' or the 'good enough-one'.

TL/DR: if someone masturbates a lot as a virgin I'd figure they lean onto the more normal sexual continuum as opposed to being asexual or having issues/personality disorder. I have an older family member who is a virgin- late 40s, and totally normal/we talk about sex, etc, but they just haven't found anyone suitable (and are high-functioning autistic so not exactly social creatures out there trying to get some).[/quote]

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