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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]your nephew sounds like he exhibits a psychopathology way beyond the mood disorder of bipolar. bipolars don't lack empathy. i think he's been misdiagnosed.[/quote]
This was in response to one of the PPs (not to do with OP) - and if you are still reading: I agree with above.  Your nephew was misdiagnosed.

To OP: Our thoughts are with you!  I hope your daughter is OK and will have a speedy recovery!    Just a horrible horrible day for you, but tomorrow will be better!!!  Sending all the best wishes!!![/quote]

PP with the nephew here--I couldn't agree more about him being misdiagnosed, but that is its own story.  A long, sad story.  I wanted to share that it is very important to give children opportunities to face the consequences of their childish decisions.  I remember an incident when he was barely 3 years old, and he was trying to get his dad's attention while dad was changing his baby sister's diaper.  My nephew picked up a belt and smashed it across the baby's face, bloodying her face.  His dad picked her up and said, "that made me sad," as my nephew laughed and laughed.  Then they brought him out for ice cream.

Now, when he does ever-more sadistic things, they smile and say, "He doesn't like to apologize.  We don't escalate.  He doesn't understand other people have feelings.". Why doesn't he understand?

It doesn't need to be about legal liability.  It can just be about a life lesson.

OP, if you are still reading, ignore the mean comments here, and kiss all your sweet babies for me.  I've had my share of accidents, and they are my lowest moments as a parent.  I'm so sorry.[/quote]

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