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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I can't speak for cheaters but I'm in an open marriage so I have dated while being married, though not since COVID. My last girlfriend was cute but heavier and relatively unsuccessful (several part time jobs). I liked her a lot, but by DCUM standards she'd get described the way people are talking about APs here. I think she felt like she had fewer options, was grateful for any kind of positive attention, and so she was more likely to wind up with a married guy with a kid. It really does just narrow your options.

(My ex was great though and I hope she's found someone)[/quote]

Well she didn’t “end up” with a married guy with a kid, now did she? He didn’t leave his wife for her, correct? She’s probably too old to land someone without looks and/or means to support herself/successful career.  Her options are severely limited.[/quote]

Why would a married guy with a kid even be an option in the first place?  Talk about sinking low.[/quote]

She liked me? I mean it's a weird situation for sure, but she dated me for the same reason anyone dates anyone. We split up because she couldn't actually handle my being married, but thought she could.

My overall point was that, yes, we were both people with fewer options than a lot of people which helped us get together.[/quote]

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