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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op here. When I tell him that I’m sad about what happened he says I am “playing games to make him feel bad” and that it’s cruel to keep asking him to go to a place that makes him feel shame. [/quote] Wow. Do yourself a favor and leave now.[/quote] DaRVO - Deny, Attack, Reverse Victim and Offender. It’s a classic abuse tactic. He’s not the bad guy for cheating - you’re the bad guy for making him feel bad about it. Has he said, “I already told you I’m sorry; what else do you want from me?” That’s a classic! [/quote]
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