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Reply to "10 year old told me he thinks spouse is cheating on me -- advice?"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This can be deeply upsetting for kids. I definitely think he needs to be assured he did the right thing. It also probably took a lot of courage for him to come to you. And if you just drop it entirely, that will also be deeply upsetting to him. So I think you have to dig deep on this while at thee same time easing your kid's anxieties. [/quote] Agreed. If you want him to ever tell you an upsetting concern in the future, do not brush it away (but I am sure you did the best you could in the moment—who is prepared for that conversation!) I would confront your husband, as calmly as you can. Ask him to show you the texts that upset your child. He either will, and they will prove innocent...or they won’t. OR he will get defensive and not show the phone. That would make me very suspicious. It is important that he NOT express anger towards your poor child, or ask him to keep secrets from you. I hope it works out.[/quote]
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