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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think guys cheat because secretly they are immature. They crave variety, and they want out of the demanding role of day-today father/husband. He is hoping you will take the kids, and let him become a part time parent. A lot of guys (the kind who wouldn't use a prostitute, ewww) do not cheat simply because of lack of opportunity, i.e. nobody cute enough hits on them. I've told my DH if he ever cheats on me, he gets the kids because it'll be his fault that we are getting divorced. I think it's a pretty good preventive. [/quote] exactly. guys cheat based to the extent of opportunity. I've never cheated, but in 5+ years I've only had 2-3 girls pursue me and none were worth it. But I don't travel for work, don't have a lot of girl friends, no hot young women in my neighborhood, etc. Zero opportunity. Which, by the way, is a good thing because I don't "want" to cheat. But back when I was living in Clarendon and/or traveling a lot or going out a lot, I had girls throw themselves at me all the time and rarely did I have the ability to say no. An attractive young girl comes up to you after you had been drinking, and puts her hand on your thigh - you think I can say no to that? [/quote]
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