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Reply to "My friends are telling me (f) not to propose to my boyfriend"
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[quote=Anonymous]I agree with everyone else. Do not propose. Instead, sit down with him and tell him you would like to be married, and ask how he feels about that, and when he thinks he might be ready. If he still pushes it down the road, then you need to tell him that you will need to move on. You’ve been together four years. He likes the way things are. I will add that the fact that he became angry when you made “a comment about marriage” in front of your friends gives me a nagging red flag feeling - but of course, I don’t know exactly what the comment was, just that it related to marriage. Proposing would be missing his cues, and misreading the situation. But a conversation about your future, and what you want for your future, is long overdue. Mid-thirties, four years together...don’t let another moment go by, OP. But don’t propose.[/quote]
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