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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]A one night stand is a lapse of judgement and likely can be worked through if both parties want.

But this...be was engaging with multiple women in sex chat groups and trying to meet up with at least one of them.  That is a very deliberate and probably went on for some time- gross and a HUGE character problem you can't therapy away.

Divorce. [/quote]

OP. He definitely has issues with sex, yes that have manifested itself in different ways throughout the marriage. And he has an issue with lying which is mental health related. They are likely both mental health related. He wasn't looking for a relationship, just sex. As far as I know nothing ever actually happened. He just fantasized about it. It's a type of addiction to porn as I understand it. It's related to depression I've been told. So the talking about fun things is actually helpful, but it needs to be part of a bigger treatment that involves dealing with more difficult issues. IMO.[/quote]

Is he a Duggar?  Mental health issues never go away OP.  Don't torture yourself.  [/quote]

He went to catholic school all his life. I thought I was the one without enough morals with my parents not caring enough about me to send me to catholic as the saying in catholic school goes. It's just so strange. I agree they don't go away, but our catholic faith and my child at least compel me to work through this the next 3 years before he graduates and I'm just trying to do the best I can during that time making as much progress as possible. For me, for him, for our children. Even if we do divorce, I'll feel better about him being in a better place mentally with the kids.[/quote]

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