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[quote=Anonymous]If you're attracting creeps, it's something YOU'RE putting out.

insecurity?  vulnerability?

It's not blame; it's all about empowering.

By allowing someone to invade your space/personal thoughts, it is indeed making you appear to be a victim.

How hard is it to move?  or to tell him to fuck off?

[quote=Anonymous]I cannot BELIEVE the victim blaming that is going on in this thread!

People, this woman was SEXUALLY HARASSED on the metro. Freezing up when someone is harassing you is a totally normal reaction. I bet that a lot of you bragging about your "don't fuck with me face" and calling the OP dumb would freeze up too if you experienced some of the things related in this thread. You want to know why people don't report this kind of behavior more often? Because when they do, people call them dumb and imply that they are responsible for being harassed. If the OP had come here with a story of this guy harassing her and her reaction being "GET AWAY FROM ME YOU CREEP!", people would be talking about how she didn't know what his intentions were and should have been more polite.

OP, I feel for you.[b] I also seem to attract creeps on public transit.[/b] My strategy is usually to ignore them completely or get up and move to another car. It's not hard to get from one car to another when the train stops at a station, but there is always the fear that any kind of rebuff of the harasser on your part will lead to them escalating or going completely crazy.

The bottom line is that it's hard to stand up for yourself when someone makes you feel uncomfortable and trapped, even if you are otherwise confident.[/quote][/quote]

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