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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don't understand why all these people are responding to the OP with "in the abstract it's not a big deal, in reality it is."  OP clearly stated that she has experienced infidelity--it's not an abstract concept to her.

OP, I completely agree. The importance that people put on romantic/sexual fidelity is pretty weird to me. It's like monogamy is a box, and people keep falling out of the box, or shifting around and being uncomfortable in it. It happens to so many people that maybe it's the box that should be reexamined and adjusted, rather than the people being chastised because they don't fit perfectly in the box. [/quote]

Again. There are many kinds of dysfunctions.  Acceptance of infidelity is a dysfunction for most mentally healthy people.  You can make peace with any kind of bad situation based on your circumstances. OP has made her peace with her bad situation.  It does not make her bad/abnormal situation a good/normal one. It just means that OP has chosen to be ok with her bad situation and live with it.

Why she needs validation on an anonymous forum is a valid question to ask, but the truth is that DCUM in recent times have seen a lot of Trumpers, InCels, COVID-deniers, Cult Members post from outside of DMV post.  We have all sorts of freaks posting here. [/quote]

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