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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Single 44 year old woman here with lost of single and divorced female friends. There is a good chance you will not find it. Your decision should be, "Would I rather be alone, or would I rather be with him?" It should not be "Would I rather be with someone I am really into, or would I rather be with him?" Do not blow up your life because you hope you will wind up with someone you are more into. It's very possible that will not happen. But, perhaps you would be happier alone. Only you can answer that. Oh, and how would you feel if you are single and he is remarried and your kids have a stepmother? Because that is the likeliest scenario.[/quote]

PP here. I agree with this. I decided I would rather be alone forever than continue to be married. I don't think anyone should divorce if they are thinking they want a better fit. It has to be that the marriage itself is bad enough to leave and leaving and being alone is better than staying.

However, I have found it is better after, and I have been pleasantly surprised that for me at least, it is not as bleak as people seem to think.[/quote]

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