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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]We have a little girl next door who was playing Mean Girl.  She was getting all the kids to gang up on one kid, picking a different one of my children to do this to each time.  I would correct this little girl repeatedly, even in front of her mother, and it would never stop.  My kids are now forbidden to play with that family and I tell them the reason in plain language.

So I relate to have a little girl next door who is not as cherubic inside as her appearance.

Furthermore, the parents are popular and host lost of parties, and try to keep their guests right at the property line on my side even though it's really strange for everybody.  In retrospect, I am suspicious that the mother may be socially competitive and was teaching her DD to behave this way intentionally.

I wonder, OP, if this perfect family that you have next door is deliberately dropping hints or engaging in behaviors specifically to make you jealous.  It sounds like they had the money for an even nicer place but chose to be the 'big fish' in a slightly less wealthy neighborhood.  The mom may have a need to feel like the winner.  I am sure your therapist is telling you to see the big picture and the problem is you...but you may have actually been a target in the same way your daughter is a target now. [/quote]

You sound crazy!

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