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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My big issue would be the secrecy. He SAYS he has this whole side of his identity and sexuality that doesn’t really impact anything day-to-day because he’s not interested in transitioning and he has been and plans to be monogamous. But he is only telling you any of this because he got caught. So obviously keeping this a secret is more important than having an open and trusting relationship. That is a choice he has already demonstrably made. So who knows how far this goes or how honest he is really being now. 1) Get yourself tested for STDs 2) Insist on using condoms 3) Individual therapy 4) Couple’s therapy[/quote] This. The couples I know with this or coming out of the closet waited until their youngest kid was almost done in college, then announced and filed for divorce. You caught him before that or before he met someone. [/quote]
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