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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think people divorce at one of three times generally.

1) Early on, year one or two, maybe they have a baby or a toddler but they realize quickly they made the wrong decision and pivot

2) The 7 year people. Been together awhile, young kids, not connecting with each other, bored. I think these people should sometimes push through but I'd never tell them that.

3) The 20/25 year people who pushed past 7 and stuck it out till their kids were grown but don't like each other anymore. [/quote]

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4) Happy marriages that became too kid-focused (years 14-25 mid-life crisis spurred on by boredom and unaddressed childhood trauma rearing it's head) and less-invested spouse usually--looks outside the marriage for an exciting mid-life fling.  If there is genuine love and strong base--with therapy and lots of individual and couples counseling--these can go on to be very fulfilling and happy marriages without splitting the home and different Holidays, etc.

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thanks both OP here, i like that list [/quote]

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