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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op - just remember, most people judging you in this thread have already had their wedding day the way they wanted it. [b]The people who are excited to celebrate with you will be there[/b] - no need to worry about the rest![/quote]

Your presumption is incorrect.  You are equating "attendance" with "excitement".  Not everyone attending OP's do-over wedding will be 'excited' and not all of those missing it will be 'un-excited'.

In reality, there's nothing exciting about a do-over ceremony.  In fact, it's textbook, anti-climatic.  Have a big celebration/reception if you like but having another ceremony is cringe inducing.  Why even have the 1st wedding?[/quote]

I agree that excitement =/= attendance.  People may be excited but lack the money or vacation time to attend, or might have other family obligations that prevent them from attending.  People who do attend may be resentful or secretly judging you.

Personally, I would not attend a fake second wedding ceremony.  If you want to have a big party or getaway weekend somewhere fun, go for it!  But I don't want to spend money to watch a couple who has been married for a year or more dress up like a bride and groom and pretend to get married again.  Just skip that part and have the party or whatever.  [/quote]

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