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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op marriages go through slumps.  I remember going through one a couple of years back where I really thought DH had grown apart and there was nothing left between us.  I remember for the first time understanding why people divorced for simply growing apart.  Life is not meant to be endured, you should be striving to enjoy it.

However DH and I got through that patch and are now really  happy and in sync again.  So if it's been 2 years or less I would be having a serious conversation with your DH.

Is he stressed?  What is making him angry, anxious?  Perhaps he needs this holiday as life has gotten monotonous and he just needs a break.  I mean the time it took to ask him to press start on the dishwasher you probably could have just quickly pressed it and run out.  It's time to look at your own behaviours and really think about whether some things are annoying. Talk about it with him.

However if this did continue then no why should you spend the rest of your life with someone who living with stresses you out.  If you can't come back or resolve it then no I wouldn't want to in a marriage where you are both strangers.  You don't need to sacrifice your life for that, the kids will learn to cope.[/quote]

Same.  We recently reconnected and have had sex 6 times in the last 3 days.  We are wrapped in each others arms again.  We were lost and not connecting and I felt like we were on a thin thread for 4 years prior (have been together 24 years).  I can’t believe the 180.  DH has confronted a lot of childhood issues in therapy and group.[/quote]

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