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[quote=Anonymous]Don't get married until you have each witnessed the other in a terrible circumstance. How does that person react? Do they taken ownership? Do they blame others, blame you even? Do they act irrationally? It's key to see how the other reacts. Also, do a lot of digging. Every family covers up, intentionally or not. Ask pointed questions about relatives, try to see why XX looks so miserable. I noticed it was odd early on that my in laws while presenting to be happily married, they had issues. Learned later, they can't stand each other and fought all the time when my spouse was growing up. It affected my spouse and I see it's affects in our marriage today. It's not pretty.[/quote]
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