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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I guess I'll be the unicorn. Spouse had an affair after 4 years of marriage. He confessed, was remorseful, wanted to stay married. We worked through things in therapy for about a year.

That was 25 years ago. We've had a strong, happy marriage. I sincerely believe he has never cheated again. [/quote]

How long was the affair?

My spouse’s was multi-year, but they didn’t see each other over the summers and 1-2 times per month the rest of the year.[/quote]

Multi-year signals a strong emotional bond and even if they were not physical they were likely connecting on an emotional level particularly if it was a work affair and could use landlines to talk.[/quote]

No it doesn't. it signals they got away with it for a long time and knew how to hide it better.[/quote]

Plus one.  I am out of a 4 year affair.  It just fizzled.  We aren't even in communication, went from weekly "how's it going" to monthly and now has been seven months.  Sometimes, it's just sex and passion that was missing in the marriage.[/quote]

Why are you posting in an affair recovery thread?  You are not offering anything if you are still keeping the lie to yourself.  What have you done to help your spouse recover and you to change your disgusting behavior?  How have you made amends?  If the OP knows, have you issues an apology?  Or, do you still think you did nothing wrong?[/quote]

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