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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, You are the winner all day every day.  Someone coming into the relationship 13 years on will never compare to you.[/quote]

Thank you this does bring me some comfort. [/quote]

Wow. Just Wow. Please get a therapist before you cause more damage to your child. I get you are hurt and you should be, but you're going to cause your child to go about things the way you are.

Talking about her dad's extramarital affairs with her.  Freaking out about her replacing you as a mother, so you want to ban your child from seeing her.

Yes you will always be her mother, so don't ruin that by being crazy.   Also come to terms with the fact that she may end up liking this other woman, not as her mother, but as another person, they may have children together, and your daughter may like her half-siblings. Don't put your daughter in the position of feeling like she has to hate them, or be mean to them on your behalf, make her feel guilty and like she's betraying you if she does like them.

Please, please, please get therapy to work through your emotions on this it is so needed so you and your daughter  can get to the other side with minimal damage. YOu can handle this all with grace and end up with a mother/daughter bond that's stronger than ever, or you can end up with a child the minute they turn 18   runs away from you.[/quote]

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