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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]In the unlikely event that you stay together after your spouse finds out (an there is a good chance he or she will): Be prepared for years of bad emotional triggers and PTSD. You and your AP went on a business trip to Boston? For the rest of spouse’s life, Boston will be a trigger. Certain items, places, events will be seared in your spouse’s mind and it be recurring pain. Yes this has happened to me. Yes, OP, you have inflicted that pain on your spouse. You want to stay together, that is not going away. [/quote] This. I gave SEVERE PTSD after my husband’s affair. And, yes, he took her out of town on one of his business trips. The pain is unbearable. The lies were ridiculous and believable so now anything that comes out of his mouth is not to be believed. It’s the worst thing you can do to someone.[/quote]
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