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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Its interesting, I cheated, my spouse doesn't want to divorce but doesn't want to go to counseling to work on the problems in our marriage, and doesn't want to have sex, so we are stuck till I get the courage to divorce.[/quote]

Your spouse should demand a post-nuptial agreement outline exactly what they are entitled to in a divorce.  It’s the only way I could start working on things  after my spouse’s huge betrayal.  I was having sex with him 3-4 times per week prior to discovering his affair.  I was unwilling to work with somebody who could do it again to me down the road.  The affair nearly killed me and my health.

Now at least I get the other house, half of the one we currently live in, alimony/child support and 1/2 his retirement.  I also have my own career, health benefits and my own retirement so I will do well.  He also is in intensive individual therapy, got a vasectomy, regular STD tests every 3 months, total accountability, etc.

It’s near impossible to get over a multi-year affair.  At least I made sure to cover my ass before trying to trust again.  It gives me peace of mind and him incentive.  He did all of those things on his own accord because he didn’t want to lose me.[/quote]

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