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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Problem of the third generation, as brains pass through the mother.  Smart ugly grandparents make it rich. Their smart & wealthy son marries pretty but average IQ girl.  Third generation spends Dad's inheritance with Mom's IQ.

Most of you lamenting are third generation, with fourth generation kids.  Sorry.  Have your sons go for the smart girl.  [/quote]

Your assumptions are wildly out of date. Men used to marry their secretaries, now they marry fellow lawyers and doctors who then go on to become SAHMs. It's called assertive mating. Smart men don't chose dumb women for their (first) wives anymore. [/quote]

Bingo. It’s called assortive mating and exactly what has kept DH and I in the UMC. We each had professional class parents on both sides. We both attended top schools and are a dual income big law and finance household. While we have been blessed with many advantages and made sure to maximize these opportunities, a significant portion of our success comes down to luck. In particular, not graduating into a depression or choosing specialities that haven’t blown up (yet). We each were able to spend many years building professional resumes (prior to kids) without getting derailed by the economy. Not everyone is so fortunate. In addition, there are a finite number of these types of positions and the pie is shrinking by the year. Even for those that ostensibly check every box of (relative) success, we face an uncertain future in our respective fields.[/quote]

Love your post because it recognizes the luck that went into your hard work paying off.[/quote]

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