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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I like sex.  I will have sex.  My wife has determined she no longer wants sex.  Good for her.  I don't accept her decision for the both of us.  So I'll get sex elsewhere and there are so many people, men and women, in this situation that it's not hard to find.

As for, why don't I just divorce her, then go get the sex?  That is such a naive question. There are 100s of reasons why couples stay together yet go outside of marriage for sex.  [b]Eventually, we will divorce but that doesn't work for me right now.  [/b]

And no, I don't have a don't ask, don't tell agreement, or any agreement at all.  While she doesn't want sex, she still expects sexual monogamy. Yes, it's an insane situation that I put up with for too long, but now longer.  It's really the best situation it can be at the moment.  I don't bother her for sex, or act in any way towards her that is angry or resentful.  She either chooses to be totally clueless, or she really is if she thinks I just gave up on sex because she did.

If you won't give your spouse sex, don't worry about them going elsewhere for it until the time they stop bothering you about yet seem to be a bit more pleasant for unexplained reasons.[/quote]
Maybe divorce would "work" for her right now, though, if she knew the truth. Why not tell her?[/quote]

Yep.  I found out accidentally and guess what it’s not working for him right now.  Begging, groveling, crying.

It’s sure as hell working for me.

My husband was like that guy “big tough guy” too :lol: [/quote]

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