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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I like sex.  I will have sex.  My wife has determined she no longer wants sex.  Good for her.  I don't accept her decision for the both of us.  So I'll get sex elsewhere and there are so many people, men and women, in this situation that it's not hard to find.

As for, why don't I just divorce her, then go get the sex?  That is such a naive question. There are 100s of reasons why couples stay together yet go outside of marriage for sex.  Eventually, we will divorce but that doesn't work for me right now.

And no, I don't have a don't ask, don't tell agreement, or any agreement at all.  While she doesn't want sex, she still expects sexual monogamy. Yes, it's an insane situation that I put up with for too long, but now longer.  It's really the best situation it can be at the moment.  I don't bother her for sex, or act in any way towards her that is angry or resentful.  She either chooses to be totally clueless, or she really is if she thinks I just gave up on sex because she did.

If you won't give your spouse sex, don't worry about them going elsewhere for it until the time they stop bothering you about yet seem to be a bit more pleasant for unexplained reasons.[/quote]

Your tone reads to me as very "big man."  I WILL get what I want.  I WILL do what I want.  If you're truly that big and bold why don't you TELL YOUR WIFE you're having sex with others?  That would take real guts.  Let her make an informed decision if SHE WANTS to stay married to you.[/quote]

Because he’s a p@ssy that bangs broken women like himself and they validate each other’s selfish narcissistic behavior.

They are f@King shocked and turn into crying babies when the spouse eventually finds out (Because they always get too bold and eventually sloppy) and kicks them out.  Ask me how I know  :lol: ?

“Please don’t tell anyone.  Don’t tell my family. Don’t tell our neighbors, friends.  I love you.  “. Blah blah f@cking blah

Real men do not behave that way or treat their families that way.[/quote]

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