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Reply to "I'm never going to get married and have children, am I?"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous] You can't force yourself to have feelings for someone?[/quote] PP. I was given very good advice once from an old person married many, many years. When you’re still only just dating, what matters is how *you* feel about *yourself* when you’re with them. You hardly know each other when dating, compared with a lifetime, or even a year of marriage! How could you have *real* feelings for them? Focus less on whether you have feelings for them (that will come—and go, and come, and go—with time). But if they’re a decent person and you feel good, sure, confident, comfortable etc about yourself in their presence, then you’ll be able to make it work. [Caveat: you actually have to want marriage for this to work. Don’t meme yourself into wanting it because you think thats what you should have your age. Stay single, especially if you are already so stuck in your ways you can’t make room for an imperfect person in your already perfect life.][/quote]
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