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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm surprised by these so called " feminists" on this board. So because OP is a woman she can't just want sex? She has to have a solid commitment or marriage before having sex and becoming emotionally invested? This is not 1950's for all you older people. This is not how today works. There is nothing, and I mean NOTHING wrong with OP wanting and enjoying sex. It's like saying it expected from a man, but how dare OP just enjoy casual sex with this guy. I don't think OP should get invested in a guy who doesn't want to make a commitment, but don't demonize her or act like she is some kind of sl*t because she enjoys having sex. Good for her for getting her sexual needs met![/quote]

Another misguided person.

OP's on record with wanting to be his girlfriend in exchange for the right level of commitment so let's just be done with the silly talk of "i'm just in it for the sex!" She likes him enough for a boyfriend if he asked. No one starts DCUM threads about being in it for the sex.  So she obviously does want something from him in addition to the sex.

Today works exactly the same way.  No one is demonizing her.  She is being told, correctly, that if she wants the girlfriend status, the better way is to avoid sex, not the sleeping over part.

"I'm just in it for the sex!" is a common defense mechanism for girls to whom nothing but sex is being offered.
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