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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You took a step by telling him you are married. If he backs off, you can't cheat with him.[/quote]

Not necessarily.  Backing off of a woman you didn't realize was married is the decent thing to do.  She's still free to go after him, but the ball is definitely in her court.

- A man[/quote]

[b]Yeah, but if I have to pursue you, it seems like a desperate loser move to me. I'd rather have a man leave no question he wants me[/b].[/quote]

See, here's the thing.  If a man expresses interest in you, then finds out you're married and continues to "leave no question he wants" you, he is a dirtbag, because only dirtbags pursue married women that way.  You want him?  It's up to you to go and get him.

- A man[/quote]

Dirtbags can be hot, too. In your scenario, we are playing morality chicken. I'd rather you be the "dirtbag" and sweep me off my feet (and away from good judgement) then for me to be some lonely, horny wife jumping at every d1ck which salutes me.[/quote]

DP - so the difference is that you want to be treated like a wh*re rather than act like one[/quote]

The difference is the man can be labelled the dirtbag, while the woman got caught up in it. It's not as easy (morally) for women to cheat as it is for men. The mental gymnastics she plays (lonely, loveless, staying for the kids) become much easier when a hot guy is aggressively pursuing.[/quote]

thanks for agreeing with my point[/quote]

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