Reply to 13 yo DD was called fat today

Forum Index » Tweens and Teens

Reply to "13 yo DD was called fat today "

Subject:

Emoticons





More smilies

Text Color: Font: Close Marks

[quote=Anonymous]]You do nothing. These girls are calling her fat because they are envious of her womanly curves. It happened to my DD too and the girls who were being mean had reasons to be jealous and mean.

Let your DD read  "queen bees and wanna bes" and then put your attention towards the following for her - studies, activities, skin care, dental care, hair, exercise ( to make it a habit and be fit, not to lose weight), clean nutrition.

My DD is 21 and in college now, getting a triple major in STEM. She is tall and with curves. She has great teeth, glowing flawless skin and wonderful hair. She has a lot of friends and she is kind to people. She is not a doormat and having had this kind of experience in MS means that she is able to remove toxic friends from her life.

When the bullying started, I concentrated on getting her and myself educated, and working on what could be worked on.  It has paid great dividends.

You cannot change these girls because they are bitchy. What you can do is ignore them, know that they speak falsehoods because they are jealous, And keep growing in all fields.  If your kid is traumatized and has feelings of inadequacy then therapy and some concrete steps for self-improvement can be taken. But remember that your child does not have to change to please other children making mean and untrue comments. That will be going in a rabbit hole.
[/quote]

Options

	Disable HTML in this message
	Disable BB Code in this message
	Disable smilies in this message

Review message

Search Recent Topics Hottest Topics