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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Depends on how desperately you want another kid and how much or little you value other things in your life.

I value my career, appearance and marriage A LOT so I wouldn’t be okay having two young children.  It would make it much harder for me to be successful at work, spend time not with kids with my husband and stay below my goal weight.  Not to mention college savings for the first.

Some women seem to just not care and value having that second baby.  [/quote]

Wow.  How shallow can you get?[/quote]

I give you that appearance is superficial.  However it’s somewhat related to my sex life, which I don’t consider to be shallow.  My marriage is important and sex is a requirement for a happy marriage.

But how is my career or marriage shallow?   Plenty of parents on this board have serious marital issues that don’t seemed to be helped by children.  Many marriages end up in divorce.  We all know that having children (especially close in age) negatively affects a woman’s career.  These are all valid concerns for someone wanting to live a nice and less stressful life.  If you aren’t concerned about college savings, staying married or happiness then sure, go on and have another right away!

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Yes, this!  You are not shallow. More children is not the answer. [/quote]

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