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[quote=Anonymous]We have 3 (twins and a third) and debated for years about having a 4th.  In retrospect I'm so happy we didn't have the 4th. 
Why?

-I've found the older my kids get, the crazier their (and our) lives are.  Mine are now 13, 13, 10.  We run like crazy people taking them to practices, school events, concerts, parties, etc. 
I feel like I exist in roller skates and I'm always driving.  Having multiple kids is easy when they're young and REALLY easy when they're under 5 and all you're worrying about is feeding them, dressing them and getting them to sleep.  In my experience it gets nuts when they're in middle school.

-I'm now 45 and I'm far more tired than I was at 40.  I felt like 41-42 was interchangeable with 30 or 35.  These last few years I've felt age creep on.  I've discussed this with many friends and we all agree.  There's a shift in energy, etc that happens mid 40's.

-We love to travel internationally with our kids and it gets SO much easier each year.  We've gone on a big trip every year since our youngest was 2 (so the past 8 years).  My kids became pros at sitting on long-haul flights (Asia, etc) since they were young.  They visit museums, historical sights like it's their job.   However, it all gets so much easier each year.  Even if your kids are good travelers, when they're young they're just slower and everything takes a million years.  Now at 13 and 10 they pack themselves.  They can deal with jet lag without a hiccup.  They can wait to pee if the next bathroom isn't for 2 more hours.  They don't need a drink or complain even if they're thirsty.  They can run for a train connection, etc.  All these things (over the course of a vacation) make a trip far more enjoyable.  Also we're now able to do far more interesting things--we just came back from skiing in Europe.  Lats winter we went backpacking in Patagonia.  None of this would be possible if we still had a young kid in the mix.  [/quote]

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