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[quote=Anonymous]Op, tell her directly and sternly: mil, I appreciate your concern but please do not say anything more about this. My dh, my doctor and I are monitoring baby's weight/health. Your comments just make me feel like you're judging me. I will let you know if our decision changes. If she protests ("I'm just trying to help..."), Listen to her, don't get huffy and defensive, but say directly "I appreciate your intentions. But I don't want to hear another word about it. " This approach worked with my pushy mom and pushy mil with very similar situations. If they have even a shred of decency regarding human interaction, they shut up. [/quote]
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