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[quote=Anonymous]Started really appreciating how giving and forgiving he is, which helped me to reciprocate. I think I was always kind of keeping a tally in my head of who had f*cked up more or more recently, and then I did something really stupid, that if he had done it instead of me, I would have been furious for weeks, and he just ... forgave me. I realized I was keeping tabs in a game he wasn't playing, and I'd rather have a marriage modeled on his attitude than mine. A couple of times he's done something that almost sets me off, and I think back to that incident that made me realize he was being so much more generous than I'm inclined to be, and I just let it go. This was maybe 3 years ago? It has been a really good adjustment.[/quote]
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