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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, if having multiple biological children was really so important to you, you should have ended your relationship w/your husband when he wouldn't commit, and considered becoming a SMBC with your own eggs while you were still young enough. Or even freezing your eggs at the time (though the jury's out on how effective that is). Being resentful of your husband and trying to deprive him of a genetic connection to a second child makes zero sense. [/quote]

Yes. I should have done that. Hindsight being 2020. Lots of things I could have done differently. Thank you for pointing that out. 
I'm not trying to deprive him of a genetic connection. I do not feel comfortable with only him having a genetic connection. I feel the dynamic would be so strange and create problems. [/quote]
It sounds like you are creating those problems in your own head. Are you worried that your husband might exclude you from the child's life because he has a genetic connection and you don't? Seriously, please lay out examples of the problems you think would arise. If this isn't a petty knee jerk punishment, you should be able to articulate a few examples.[/quote]

Yes. I feel my husband would have more of a connection with that child. I feel that I would resent it and I fear I would resent the child. My husband is very competitive. I feel that would spill into the family dynamics. [b]I also feel as though he would be having a child with another woman. [/quote][/b]

I think you have major issues OP and you should get counseling but I have to admit I agree with you on this part. It’s the reason I would never do donor egg myself.
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