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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, if having multiple biological children was really so important to you, you should have ended your relationship w/your husband when he wouldn't commit, and considered becoming a SMBC with your own eggs while you were still young enough. Or even freezing your eggs at the time (though the jury's out on how effective that is). Being resentful of your husband and trying to deprive him of a genetic connection to a second child makes zero sense. [/quote]

Yes. I should have done that. Hindsight being 2020. Lots of things I could have done differently. Thank you for pointing that out. 
I'm not trying to deprive him of a genetic connection. I do not feel comfortable with only him having a genetic connection. I feel the dynamic would be so strange and create problems. [/quote]

Birthing children is inherently unfair.  I mean you could die in childbirth, and he could never.  Your body could be wrecked by childbirth, and his would never. Wouldn't that dynamic also be strange and create problems? And yet go figure, millions of women voluntarily sign up every year![/quote]

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