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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If you are this bitter and angry towards him, and you already have a child...why on earth are you still together?

I agree with a PP...in denying your DH a biological connection to a second child, you are also denying your first child a biological connection to a sibling.  Have you considered that at all?[/quote]

So what if I was considering simply adopting? Would you all be yelling at me that no, I should do a donor egg? [/quote]

I'm a pp.  If you were wanting to adopt in order to deprive your husband of a biological connection because you're angry with him then yes - I would react the same way.

Decisions about creating/adopting/parenting kids should never start in anger or be driven by punitive intent.  It's just wrong OP.[/quote]

I'm obviously not creating a child for a punitive intent. I'm simply saying I'm not comfortable with my husband having a genetic connection to the child, but me not having any. [/quote]

I mean, you do realize you're being petty, correct?  That does register in your brain?

I think you should work on parenting your one child and making his/her life amazing, get therapy for the internalized anger you feel towards him (and yourself), and then perhaps look into adoption of a child when you're in a better head-space.   [/quote]m
This feels like the right answer. [/quote]

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