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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I would put this right back on my husband.  “Your parents are coming for Mary’s Girl Scout award ceremony.  Don’t forget to make up the guest room.  I can order Instacart so we have some groceries.  What would like me to order for you to cook for dinner.  I think we can move to everyone fixing their own breakfast and lunch.”

Once my husband has to start putting himself out, magically, he isn’t interested in hosting at all.

I make sure obligatory holidays are covered for both sets of relatives.  If he wants extra visits, he is responsible for planning and executing for his family and I am responsible for mine.  [/quote]

OP here, back really quickly to say that I do this already and he doesn't mind!  I also refuse to do any extra cleaning before they come, and since he doesn't really clean, they just deal with our clutter and a bathroom that hasn't been scrubbed in a couple weeks  It does not deter!

And again, I like them, they're good people, it's just a LOT.[/quote]

Then start going to a hotel when they sleep over.[/quote]

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