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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I'm divorcing a guy like this. I stayed too long. I have a chronic illness and thought divorce would be too hard. I'm doing a lot better now. Emotional abuse was making me weak and physically sick. Walking on eggshells takes the best of you. My ex once said, he couldn't even stand to listen to me talk, when we we're entertaining guests. They enjoyed my company because unlike him they couldn't foresee the obvious same old "bricks" of sentences. After that incident, I phoned my conservative parents and told them that I didn't see myself staying with him for the rest of my life. Surprisingly, I got validation for my feelings. After break-up even from his friends. Disassociate, detach and build your own circle of friends without him. I also went on vacations without him. Those things made me feel so independent and mighty that I was able to leave. Btw, he had an affair which he later gave as reason for his behaviour. He has tried to get back with me three times. I didn't take him back. So no, they don't hate you - they are incapable of normal bonding. Now he says I was his soulmate, he misses our talks, wtf?! He loves you in his way but it's so dysfunctional and harmful that you shouldnt accept his I'll servings of 'love"[/quote]

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