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[quote=Anonymous][quote]I'm not terrified. This is helpful. I still don't understand why it's bad for me to want to contribute more than just muffins and wine, [b]but I'll just stick to that, as apparently I shouldn't be stepping on toes[/b] by wanting to contribute more. [b]It's fine. I'll stay in my lane.[/b][/quote] Ewww... this sounds very whiny and nasty again OP. I think you need to practice being a good guest and convince yourself that it is simply nice to be invited and enjoy the company of others. You don't need to have a job to do to get attention. You have been invited so just enjoy the holiday like a normal person. Try engaging with people in conversation to get positive attention. Look into the mirror and say "Everything is not about me. Everything is not about me. " and then try some deep breathing and "I don't have to control the holiday". Once you have this down try some " I will not make little victim statements. I will not pout."[/quote]
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