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[quote=Anonymous]We had a mom-teenager relationship where suddenly the balance of power shifted towards the “teenager” and he became rebellious and power-hungry, while staying insecure and immature. After a few terrible years where he felt he could dictate me yet also felt I wouldn’t give him the love he was craving, and taking it out on me, I finally regained some of the power and we are divorcing. I think he has a really bad case of mommy issues, and I have a bad need for total control. It worked while we could play the same game, but having a child disrupted that dynamic and the neurotic glue was gone. I couldn’t give him love and he took away control as a revenge. I am still trying to process all this. [/quote]
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